Looking back, I’m sure most parents have some regrets about the dumb, mischievous things we’ve done in the past with our friends. Whether it was a crazy dare or trying something illegal, peer pressure transcends any generation. What can we do to advise our children about peer pressure?

Take a look at the people they hang out with. We have the advantage of setting up boundaries when it comes to our children’s friends especially during the early childhood years. In the meantime, work on their heart, “Raise them properly. Teach them and instruct them about the Lord.” (Ephesians 6:4 CEV) We can build them up so they know the difference between right and wrong, and be able to stand strong against any pressure they may face, even with their friends.

Have a conversation with your children and ask them what they like best about their friends. Ask them if they disagree on some things. This will give you an inside view of your child’s relationship with the people they spend a lot of time with.