So now that it is summer time and my son is out of school I am finally getting my husband to start to think about a vacation.  Yeah I tried to get this started way before but well he just doesn't work that way.  So well I am trying to plan a good vacation that will be fun, that we can get the most out of, that we can save some money, and can plan at the last minute like this.  But he wants to plan it like we did this months ago and try and spend less money and do it quick and get all the bang out of it now.  So I wanted to take the kids on this nice trip down the coast and stop at beaches, play in the sand, follow food trucks, and the dinners-drive-ins-and dives, skate board places by the beach, and other great places for the kids all along the coast from Washington to California. 

But now I am having to change my plans and re-think vacation.  My husband has a business trip to go to in Montana by the end of July.  The kids want to go to Montana.  I want to go too because I have a good friend that lives close by.  Then we want to do this trip.  But he wants to pack up and fly down and then rent a car and drive up.  So now I have to re-think all of this.  And well this is going to be hard.  Why couldn't we just pack up and hit the road and go and have some fun?  Nope he wants to spend a ton of extra money to try and fly us down there and then go back up.  I don't get it. I am trying to save us some money and not fly and to fly a family of 4 almost last minute is going to cost. 

So I don't know what to do.  I just want to have a fun time.  And wanted to do things like when I was a kid.  But well I just don't want to fight about this and to stress out.  But I am almost ready to just throw in the towel and tell the kids hey your dad can't make this easy so we aren't going right now we will take a trip later this year.  I just don't know what to do.  Why does this have to be so hard?